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The Real Life 101 team agrees that proper etiquette is an important aspect of every day life. We asked our etiquette expert, Jennifer Indyk, to share some of the most common mistakes she sees. Here were her thoughts:
Many people make introductions in the wrong order:
- The person of greater authority is mentioned first: “Mrs. President, may I present Mr. Vice President.”
- Introductions should be done immediately and by whomever knows both parties.
- When being introduced, offer right hand immediately for a handshake, make eye contact, smile and say something like “It’s nice to meet you” or “How do you do?”
It is a mistake to not leave your phone number on a voice mail message because you just know the other person has it.
Do not show up late to an appointment. Be on time; arriving late shows a lack of respect.
- Your glassware will be on your right and your bread plate on your left.
- Your fork will be on your left and spoon on the right.
Use cutlery with care.
- Hold cutlery with fingers; not fists.
- Do not gesture with your cutlery.
- Once you pick up a piece of cutlery, it should never touch the table again.
- Do not tuck the napkin into shirt.
- The napkin goes on your lap as soon as you sit down.
- Dab the corners of your mouth with the napkin.
It is a mistake to pass the salt or pepper alone.
- Always pass the two together, even if someone requests you to pass only one.
- Just place both in front of the person requesting them.
- Do not take the butter directly from the dish and place it on your bread.
- Rather, place a pat of butter on your bread plate first; then spread it on the bread.
- Bread is to be torn, not cut. Tear off a piece of a roll, butter and then eat, one piece at a time.
Do not put anything on table; this includes a cell phone or PDA.
Always pass food to the right.
Do not push away or stack your dishes.
Never blow on liquid to cool it.
Elbows are not permitted on the table when there is food on the table.
Remember these guidelines to avoid confusion and embarrassment when it really matters.
Written by Real Life 101, Inc.
August 4, 2011 at 11:55 am